Pergeseran Pengasuhan Anak kepada Asisten Rumah Tangga: Model Parenting Cerdas di tengah Kesibukan Orang Tua Modern

Stimson Benhard Hutagalung

doi:10.61116/jiih.v4i2.1222

Authors

Stimson Benhard Hutagalung Universitas Advent Indonesia, Jawa Barat, Indonesia

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.61116/jiih.v4i2.1222

Keywords:

Pengasuhan, Anak, Asisten Rumah Tangga, Parenting

Abstract

Perubahan sosial, urbanisasi, peningkatan keterlibatan aktif orang tua dalam angkatan kerja, dan era digital telah mengakibatkan transisi dalam praktik pengasuhan anak dari keterlibatan langsung orang tua menjadi ketergantungan pada Asisten Rumah Tangga (ART). Sindrom ini menimbulkan banyak hambatan, termasuk berkurangnya ikatan emosional, menurunnya kualitas komunikasi keluarga, dan terganggunya perkembangan sosial, spiritual, dan kognitif anak. Studi ini bertujuan untuk menetapkan Model Pengasuhan Cerdas (MPC) sebagai metode pengasuhan yang efektif bagi orang tua yang bekerja tanpa memindahkan beban utama pengasuhan ke teknologi reproduksi berbantuan seperti ART. Penelitian ini menggunakan metodologi kualitatif dengan meneliti literatur tentang beragam teori pengasuhan, keterlibatan orang tua, sistem keluarga, pembelajaran sosial, dan ekologi perkembangan anak. Temuan menunjukkan bahwa MPC memprioritaskan keterlibatan aktif orang tua, komunikasi efektif, pembagian peran dan tanggung jawab yang jelas, kolaborasi yang efektif dengan ART, dan peningkatan kerohanian keluarga. Model ini bertujuan untuk membina keluarga yang damai dan memfasilitasi perkembangan anak secara komprehensif.

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